What
makes us happy?
—fame
and fortune don’t even play a bit part, and genes may
play only a supporting role. But one ingredient that
does turn up in study after study is
gratitude.
In dozens of randomized, controlled experiments,
people who focused on the
things they were grateful for were happier,
healthier and more successful. In her new book, “Thank
You Power” (Thomas Nelson), TV journalist and
author Deborah Norville marshals this research to
advance the argument that a simple but consistent
expression of gratitude can carry us a long way down the
road to happiness.
By Jeneen
Interlandi
Newsweek
Updated:
2:56 p.m. CT Oct 3, 2007
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"If you concentrate on finding
whatever is good in every situation, you will discover
that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a
feeling that nurtures the soul."
~
Rabbi Harold Kushner ~
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SEE Richard Carlson's remarks about Gratitude
A
PERSONAL NOTE - The other night
after tossing and turning a long time I decided
to recount things I was grateful for. Soon I was sound
asleep. This also works when I am trying to let go of a
worrisome problem.
"Give
thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for
you in Christ Jesus." In giving thanks to God; don't
forget from where our blessings come. I Thessalonians
5:18, NIV.
"Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His
benefits."
Psalms 103: 2, NIV.
SEE
Today's Needy
Dee Stribling
Oct. 6 ,
2007
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How to Live Long
One of the hardest, thorniest and most difficult things
we humans are ever called upon to do is to respond to
evil with kindness, and to forgive the unforgivable. We
love to read stories about people who've responded to
hatred with love, but when that very thing is demanded
of us personally, our default seems to be anger, angst,
depression, righteousness, hatred, etc. Yet study
after study shows that one of the keys to longevity and
good health is to develop a habit of gratitude and let
go of past hurts.
Want to live a long, happy life? Forgive the
unforgivable. It really is the kindest thing you can do
for yourself. Your enemy may not deserve to be forgiven
for all the pain and sadness and suffering they've
purposefully inflicted on your life, but you
deserve to be free of this evil. The Spirit of God
will help you. wikihow.com/Forgive