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Helping even with portion of a utility bill can
give hope and encouragement,
The primary needs
of the working poor are money
for
rent, utilities, car repairs, and prescriptions -
Not Groceries.
Most of the poor are doing
the best they can within their own limitations. Often they desperately
need a friend, someone who has Christ's love in his heart.
Many of the poor are not
street people, but disabled and elderly people. Most are not wasteful,
but those who are, need our help, not judgment. Others early on have made
bad decisions, which set the course of their lives.
If they see no hope of escaping
the trap they are in, it may be that only a patient, loving friend could
really help them recover.
Who could you help out
of the trap?
WE SERVE HIM WHEN WE SERVE OTHERS.
"It's not inappropriate
to ask 'busy church members' to prayerfully re-vise their agenda so they have time to help desperate strangers."
The St.Vincent de Paul
AN EXCELLENT MODEL FOR CHURCHES CLICK
TO READ
A Home Support
Group
Many poor people find it difficult, or uncomfortable,
to attend the normal church functions.
Be
creative—offer to lead a small support group at one of their homes.
This is especially appropriate for an elderly person, or a disabled person.
However, others who feel socially uncomfortable may also prefer this.
Relieve The Church secretary
Using Your Home Computer
As your church's ministry to the poor grows, a parishioner with
a home PC can help.
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Develop an information
intake form. (ask us)
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Keep detailed client information on a database.
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Write personal letters to clients.
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Make labels or
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Print envelopes for the compassion ministry
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Publish
a quarterly newsletter to mail to the needy people your church is serving.
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Personal letters to those
who have been served is another personal touch – a way to convince them
of CHRIST'S LOVE. Some poor families seldom receive a friendly, first class
letter.
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Compose a quarterly insert
for the church bulletin detailing your church's ministry to poor .
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Your Church
Can Develop A Ministry To The Poor
Identifying Needs
Once you have decided to initiate or
expand your compassionate ministry, the next step is to locate people in need. A
neighborhood canvas in a poor section will quickly identify needs. At the
beginning select just a few blocks in which to work. Or select an apartment
house.
No need to make it a massive effort
at first. In a small geographic area even six or eight volunteers could meet a
few dozen new people. As this group develops it's skill and a deeper compassion,
expect other workers to be drawn in.
Just Love Them
One church went to an obviously
needy area and workers went door to door to determine who could use groceries.
Later they returned with food, and offered to help in other ways. Their intent
was to be very friendly, smile a lot and to avoid any confrontational
conversation. "We're just here to see if you could use some food. Our church has
some, and we'd really like to share it with you, if you need it."
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Christ in us shows
guides us to creatively respond in love. We are no longer bound to stock
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You may be an answered prayer.
Talk To A Utility
Company
They may connect you with a special
need. Recently the electric utility contacted In His Name Ministries about an
elderly lady who was partially blind. Her utility service was stopped due to
lack of payment. They could not justify keeping her service on, but a worker in
the company's social service department decided to find help for her. Ministry
friends who we informed sent checks to the utility office to pay her bill. One
volunteer went out to meet the lady. She needed friendship very badly. Now
someone will stay in contact with her to be sure she is properly cared for.
Practicing Love
Face to face friendship or a telephone contact is an
effective way to convincingly show God's love. A contact that has small
beginnings may lead to amazing results.
Involve several people to resolve situations of large need. Pull in various
skilled, or gifted people to do specific jobs, such as plumbing, home repairs,
car repairs, letter writing, or tutoring. Time given in this way is a good form
of practicing God's love. To develop a catalog of member's skills, and talents
pass out an "inventory sheet." It's not inappropriate to ask "busy
church members" to prayerfully re-schedule activities so they have time to help
desperate strangers. Sharing knowledge and financial resources with
distressed people is God's way to create heavenly justice in an unjust world. It
is unlikely that God will excuse someone for not loving his
neighbor just because he was "too busy."
Establish a church ministry using
individuals
with a heart for service. This group might consider themselves in
continual training to learn how to rightly minister to the poor, and to involve
other members in various aspects. The group could determine ways to meet needy
people and discuss how to best help them. Ideally, they would pray together
often about current individual situations.
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When Persons Call
The Church For Help
Consider the calls an opportunity
that God is setting up. An effective way to respond to phone calls from a needy
person:
The receptionist would never say, "yes," or "no" or get into a conversation
except to get the caller's name, and telephone number. Then tell the caller that someone will be in touch. No conversation
about whether help is available, no attempt to "qualify" the caller. Then she
would telephone, or e-mail a ministry committee person. That person would call
from her home to obtain more details, get to know the person and determine how to
proceed. A friendly unhurried conversation may in itself raise the hope of a
despairing person.
Because Of The Cross, we Can Love Others.
See
When to
Love, When to Evangelize
A Church Project
Making a commitment to help a disabled person.
TREASURE THAT LASTS
This piece originally written in 1993,
was part of a four page mailing that was sent to people who inquired about
a compassionate church ministry. In 1996, it was edited into a newsletter
that was mailed to friends of IHNM, Inc. and to 400 churches in central
Oklahoma. |